About emotional female hunger…. I’ll start with a simple comparison. Have you ever gone to the store while hungry? I had a period when I was fasting for several days, but I had to go grocery shopping in order to refill the refrigerator for my family. Can you imagine three days of fasting on water only, and I’m shopping for food in the store? I threw everything into the basket, and always left the store with huge, heavy bags. When I stopped fasting, I returned to my regular diet and looked to see what was in the refrigerator. Reviewing my purchases, I was horrified: in my hungry state, while fasting, I bought things that I just didn’t even eat when I am on normal diet.
This process works with emotional hunger just the same. Imagine that a woman decides to find a partner to build a family. The woman simply did not have a satisfying love life for, say a year. During that time, no one looked after this woman – didn’t give her gifts, didn’t cook her breakfast in the morning, didn’t take her to resorts, didn’t take her to restaurants, didn’t stroke her body with sincere admiration, didn’t profess love, kneeling. This woman has a starving emotional body: she longs to have all of the above. Can she, starving, build a quality relationship?
It is very rare that Fate brings a woman in a such a hungry state to the perfect match. In most cases, until a woman satisfies her appetite (and every woman has her own), she simply does not notice those with whom she can build harmonious relationships. She is chaotically attracted to those who compensate her for this or that gap: sex, going out , trips to resorts, or some kind of minimal care (fixing a faucet in the house or carrying heavy bags from the store), etc. A desperate hungry woman doesn’t always gravitate to those she really needs, because in an emotionally hungry state, the brain is tuned to compensate for hunger – just like with the body. When a woman is emotionally satiated, the antennae of her brain is tuned in to value relationships. She clearly sets priorities, rejects the “inedible” relationships, and enters only “tasty” ones which will not cause “stomach upset” after a wild feast.
If you are now in a hungry state, and you are desperate to get married, do not rush. At this stage, just be aware of your hunger and saturate your emotional body with communication, easy relationships, and so on. This is a normal, natural process. You will know when you are well-fed and ready to build quality relationships – at this moment in your head there will be complete clarity of what you really want in the relationship.
